persuasive

Should you say “I love you”?

            Love, love and always is about love. We feel that our time is not enough when we talk about love. Love is a strong feeling of deep affection for somebody or something, especially a member of your family or a friend. Love also can be a person, a thing or an activity that you like very much. Everything in the world can be better or worse because of love.

            Remember your first love. It was so beautiful, wasn’t it? You felt that everything became beautiful because of your love. You felt happy because of your boy friend or your girl friend. Your mind was full of him or her. When you began to think which appeared in your mind was him or her. Then when you wanted to do your activity which appeared in front of you was their shadow. You thought that you cannot life without them. Your feeling to say “I love you” was very strong. If you could say, you would say it at the first time you met him or her. But, you couldn’t do it because your love was very shallow. You only thought for that time. You didn’t think for the future of your love. What was the consequence after saying your love? You didn’t think it yet. High time you realized that your couple was not perfect. You began bored with them. You thought that there was someone who would be perfect for you and walked beside you for good or ill. Then it became a new problem for you. Is this your love? Yes, I think it was your love.

            In the other hand, there were your parents who gave everything and fulfilled your necessary completely. They never said their love clearly. Moreover they seldom said “I love you”, but they proved their love to you. They showed their love with their action, and you could feel it without you had to know from their words. Of course, it was more influential for you.

            Yes, you understand now. Yet, you couldn’t say that you didn’t want to know about other people’s love, because sometimes you wanted it. You wanted to express your feeling each other. You wanted to say “I love you” to your parents or your special someone. It’s normal and you need this process. Yet, the important thing is not how many times you say your love, but how often you prove it. Share a smile, your love with someone but don’t forget about the proof. Because of life is not about promise, but the proof.